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OBITUARIES                                  61




         MICHAEL STANYER



         OLD RATCLIFFIAN 1956 - 1962
         MAY 27TH 1944 - JANUARY 25TH 2017

         Michael Stanyer was born a fortnight before his father landed in
         Normandy on D+6, and he was raised in garrisons in Aldershot,
         Hong Kong and the Rhineland. Michael was the oldest of seven
         children. His brother, Paul (66), followed him to Grace Dieu and
         Ratcliffe, and his youngest brother, Peter, also attended Grace
         Dieu.

         In  1955  (Michael’s  second  year  at  Grace  Dieu),  he  played  the
         female lead in an A A Milne school play. At Ratcliffe, he continued
         as  a  drama  heavyweight,  again  playing  the  female  lead  in
         Bloodygore in December 1957. In 1958, he played ‘Gwendoline’ in
         Conan Doyle’s Laughing Cavalier and ‘Olivia’ in Twelfth Night. In
         June 1959, The Ratcliffian wrote, ‘IVa is a civilised and courteous
         form,  which  has  sparkle  without  frivolity,  and  its  prospects
         are  quite  good.  I  should  like  to  mention  among  the  hardest
         workers…Michael Stanyer.’ That term, he also won the Form IVa
         Mathematics Prize.

         In  the  Autumn  Term  of  1959,  Michael  helped  to  found  the
         College’s Astronomical Society, to which he later gave talks on
         radio astronomy and astronomical instruments, and appeared on
         The Brains Trust. In 1961, the Junior Scouts described him as a
         ‘quietly competent and genial Troop Leader – efficient, but not
         fussy, and firm, but not authoritarian.’ In 1962, during his final
         year at Ratcliffe, Michael earned the Queen’s Scout Badge, and
         he was also singled out as a strong runner in the School’s Cross-
         Country Team. He then went on to read Chemistry at Magdalene
         College, Cambridge, and there continued his theatrical work as
         Business Manager of the Amateur Dramatic Club Theatre.







                                                              In 1964, Michael spent almost six months at Bayer Leverkusen,
                                                              for practical chemical industry experience. He claimed that the
                                                              risks  in  his  section  deterred  Germans  from  visiting,  and  that
                                                              Turkish  was  more  widely  spoken.  After  graduating,  he  joined
                                                              Distillers at Hedon as a shift manager in 1966. When the company
                                                              was purchased by BP in the following year, Michael found himself
                                                              in  the  oil  industry.  He  was  retrained  to  manage  networked
                                                              computers and worked in the Arabian Gulf, Guangzhou, Hong
                                                              Kong, Alaska, Houston and Glasgow. He moved to BP Head Office
                                                              as a computer facilities manager, and after leaving the company,
                                                              he continued to contribute as a consultant to BP Exploration.

                                                              Michael married Sally Button in 1966, and in the following year,
                                                              their  son,  Simon,  was  born.  Sally  qualified  as  a  solicitor,  and
                                                              Simon was admitted to the Bar. Sadly, heart problems cut short
                                                              Michael’s planned retirement in Provence. He died at home in
                                                              Pinchbeck, Lincolnshire, where his funeral united his family and
                                                              his friends from Cambridge and the oil industry.

                                                              Paul Stanyer (66)




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