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OR STORIES: LIFE IN A PANDEMIC




     OR NEWS  Living through lockdown during the 2020 COVID-19 pandemic, the spirit of Ratcliffe shone bright. Here, the Ratcliffe community
        share their stories of hope, resilience, and inspirational personal challenges.

                                            sure that pure adrenaline got me through
                                                                                schooling,  attempted  holidays,  an  actual
                                            that fi rst shift; it had been almost 10 years
                                            since my last clinical ward shift, so it was   short holiday, and illness. Whilst it’s not
                                                                                been easy, I have learnt that, often, you are
                                            pretty daunting, to say the least! What   so much more capable than you think. There
                                            really struck me was the fact that the NHS   is always a little more room for something,
                                            staff all just rolled up their sleeves and got   and that’s one thing that I will take away
                                            on with what needed to be done. A lot of   from this pandemic. It doesn’t have to be
                                            the traditional ‘roles’ had gone out of the   a grand gesture; it might be checking on a
                                            window, and the sense of camaraderie was   neighbour, or adding some extra shopping
                                            phenomenal. It’s fair to say, though, that   for a friend who is isolating. Love is not
                                            nothing prepared me for dealing with a   always enough, but if you add compassion,
                                            bereavement within the fi rst 90 minutes of   courage, hope, grit, determination, and a
                                            my fi rst 12-hour shift. In over 15 years in the   good dose of cuddles from those who mean
                                            NHS, I have dealt with my share of death   the most to you into the mix, I’m pretty
                                            and the dying, but there is something that   sure we will be going into 2021 as better
                                            will stay with me forever about having   people. For now, though, I’m focusing on
                                            the privilege of holding a person’s  hand   recovering from illness, my family, and
                                            while they took their last breath that day.   putting my running shoes back to use.
                                            COVID visiting restrictions meant that   Thankfully (for both them and us), our
                                            families were not able to be there. That   two boys are both now at De Lisle School
        Victoria Meynell (née Illingworth) (00):   was the stark reality, and I wasn’t going to   in Loughborough, and our daughter is at
        “As most of us refl ect on what has been   let them leave this world alone. The rest of   Bishop Ellis. I have a newfound respect for
        a challenging year, I, too, am looking   my shifts went by in a blur of A&E, medical   our education system; sadly, it often takes
        back  with  a  mixture  of  emotions.  I’m   wards, and admissions, but somehow, the   something being taken away to realise
        still licking my wounds from what can   dreaded 3am to 5am period on a Saturday   what a privilege schooling and healthcare
        only be described as some of the most   night shift still haunts me! (Those of you   is! A teacher I am defi nitely not! I wish you
        diffi cult  months,  both  personally  and   who do night shifts will understand!)   all a happy and healthy 2021.”
        professionally, coupled with some fantastic
        lockdown memories as a family of fi ve, and   Between home-schooling  our three
        my experience of life back on the front line.   children (pictured, below), day jobs, and
        It’s fair to say I’m praying for a healthy and   front-line work, there was little time for
        quiet 2021! Throughout the COVID-19   much else. After a few weeks passed, it
        pandemic, I continued to work full-time   was time for me to take a step back; the
        for the British Heart Foundation within the   peak had passed, and the pressure on the
        Health  Services Engagement  team.  I love   hospitals was reducing. I’d done as much
        this job; it’s so varied, and I get to support   as I was able to, and to be honest, my
        some fantastic services and health systems   children and husband needed me back. My
        to ensure that they are delivering the best   short period back on the front line was a
        possible care for people affected by heart   drop in the ocean. The real heroes of this
        and circulatory conditions. I also spend   pandemic  are all  of the  key  workers  who
        some of my time working directly with NHS   continued to deliver care and services, day
        England and NHS Improvement on national   in and day out, and, of course, Captain Sir
        health policy. Neither of these roles are   Tom Moore!
        directly patient-facing, and so, during the
        peak of the pandemic, I chose to join NHS   Since my period back on the front line, life
        Professionals, and I spent some annual   has continued in a daze of work, home-
        leave and weekends back on the front line.

        I genuinely think that, when you sign up to
        a career like nursing or medicine, wherever
        you end up, there is always something that                              In August, Ben Surtees-Smith (99)
        calls you back when you’re needed most.                                 took on the Bone Cancer Research Trust
        I felt compelled to step up and support                                 Challenge  of  running  100  miles,  but  he
        my fellow NHS colleagues during such a                                  totally smashed this target by running a
        diffi cult time. Within a matter of days, I                             total of 323 miles – 100 of which were in
        was walking into a hospital that I’d never                              one  week!  He  set  out  to  raise  £150,  but
        previously worked in, an hour from home,                                his total fundraising efforts reached an
        and right onto a COVID ward. I’m pretty                                 incredible £1,336! Ben said: “I run with
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